This will be my first entry so please bare with me.
There are times in my life that I have a lot on my mind and I always have a lot to say. Whether anyone is listening or if anyone cares, it never mattered to me but I will always speak my mind.
I am starting this blog because I want to vent my feelings and my thoughts. I don't care that it is a public forum because I never really cared what other people thought. I'm not really doing this for anyone but myself and for anyone out there that has ever felt the way I felt.
So here it goes...
Facebook asks you what is on your mind but why should we say what's on my mind? Some people will read it and say, "oh my god they're airing their dirty laundry out in the public." There are others that might say, "they are looking for attention." I thought Facebook was suppose to be a place for your friends and family, for you to connect with the people you love. Why shouldn't we post what is really on our minds? What is so wrong with telling people how you're feeling or what is going on in your life? Why should we have to think about what we want to say before we say it? If you said you got a job, everyone would like it or congratulate you. If you said you were getting married or having a baby, that's acceptable news to tell the ones you love on a public forum. If you said you were lied to by someone who claims to love you, you'd get criticized. Someone you thought you could trust just betrayed you and you turn to those that say they are your friends. Instead of trying to make you feel better, you get criticized, you shouldn't talk bad about someone that hurt you, that's wrong. Why is it wrong, you did nothing wrong by them and they hurt you, so why can't you talk about how it makes you feel? Are you suppose to bottle it all up inside and keep it to yourself? How is that fair, how is that right? Someone gets to hurt you and you're suppose to dealt with it by yourself? Maybe you're looking for someone to justify how you feel because the person made you think you were crazy for having these feelings. You're looking for someone to rescue you because you feel lost. You don't know what to think or what to do. Why are people today always trying to tear each other down instead of building them up? Fine you don't like what someone said, so don't surround yourself with that person. You don't like what someone is doing in their life, so don't have them in yours. Why do you have to add to their life in a negative way? What satisfaction do you get out of it?
"It is during our darkness moments that we must focus to see the light." Aristotle Onassis
